Here are two meshalim that have a very good lesson. You may have heard them before, you may have not. But the lesson is so important.
The Hole In The Boat
A man was called to the beach to paint a boat. He brought his paint and brushes and began to paint the boat a bright, new red, as he was hired to do. As he painted the boat, he noticed that the paint was seeping through the bottom of the boat. He realized that there was a leak, and he decided to mend it. When the painting was done, he collected his money for the job and went away.
The following day the owner of the boat came to the painter and presented him with a large check. The painter was surprised. "You have already paid me for painting the boat," he said.
"But this is not for the paint job. It is for mending the leak in the boat."
"That was so small a thing that I even did not want to charge you for it. Surely you are not paying me this huge amount for so small a thing?"
"My dear friend, you do not understand. Let me tell you what happened."
"When I asked you to paint the boat I had forgotten to mention to you about the leak. When the boat was nice and dry, my children took the boat and went fishing. When I found that they had gone out in the boat, I was frantic for I remembered that the boat had a leak! Imagine my relief and happiness when I saw them coming back safe and sound. I examined the boat and saw that you had repaired the leak. Now you see what you have done? You have saved the lives of my children! I haven't enough money to repay you for your 'little' good deed..."
A Piece of String
A wealthy merchant bought a wonderful candelabra for his home. It was a masterpiece, made of pure crystal and studded with precious stones. It cost a real fortune.
Because of the candelabra's massive size, the ceiling in the merchant's dining room could not support its weight. In order to hang this beautiful candelabrum, a hole was bored in the ceiling, through which a rope was run and fastened to a beam in the attic.
Everybody who came to the house admired the wonderful candelabra, and the merchant and his family were very proud of it.
One day a poor boy came begging for old clothes. He was told to go up to the attic, where their old clothes were stored, and to help himself to some. He went up to the attic, and collected a neat bundle of clothes. After packing them into his bag, he searched for a piece of string with which to tie it. He saw a rope wound around a nail and decided to help himself to a piece. So he took out his pocketknife and cut the rope.
Crash! There was a terrific smash, and the next moment the whole family rushed to the attic crying: "Look what you have done! You have ruined us!"
The poor boy could not understand what all the excitement was about. He said: "What do you mean, ruined you? All I did was to take a small piece of rope. Surely this did not ruin you?"
The merchant replied, "Yes, all you did was to take a piece of rope. But it so happened that my precious candelabra hung by it. Now you have broken it beyond repair!"
These two stories, have one moral: Very often, by doing what seems to us a "small" good deed we never know what wonderful thing we have really done. And conversely, in committing what seems to us a "small" transgression, we are causing a terrible catastrophe. Both good deeds and bad deeds cause a "chain reaction." One good deed brings another good deed in its succession, and one transgression brings another. Each of them, no matter how seemingly small, may create or destroy worlds.
Don't you think these two stories are worth remembering?
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Thats a little scary... especially the candelabra 1... its so tru how one little deed affects... and its not every time that u can actually c the results but theyre still there
ReplyDeleteIt is really scary. Thank you Devora!
ReplyDeleteIt reminds me of something I learnt in seminary. we learnt the haftora of shabbos shuva-shuva yisroel ad Hashem Elokecha Ki Chashalta Biavonaecha" one way to translate this is "Return to Hashem becasue you have stumbled in your avairos done on purpose" So, we asked a question - how can you stumble in something done on purpose?
We answered that its "Ki Chashalta BIGLAL-because of-Avonecha-your avairos" That make mistakes becasue of our avairos that we did on purpose because once we do an avaira on purpose we now have the ability to do it by mistake.
So sometimes we do a little avaira and say its no big deal but that has a chain reaction that allows us to do an avaira on purpose.
This is where we get the concept of avaira goreres avaira. We think that one little thing we do makes no difference but it really gives us the power to do so much bad.
Sorry for making this so long. Hope you are able to understand it.