Thursday, December 16, 2010

Fasting - Asarah B'Teves

This was posted before but since once again we are here on the tenth day of teves, I thought it would be a good idea to post this.

Today (okay, really tomorrow) is Asarah B'Teves, the 10th day in the month of teves where most of us are fasting.


Why do we stop eating?

I think, that when we stop eating, it gives our minds time to think and we can then focus on other things. We do think about food a lot on a regular day. Breakfast. Drink. Snack. Drink. Lunch. Drink. Snack. Snack. Supper. Drink. Snack. Drink. Snack...and Midnight snack?!
Yes, so when we stop for a moment and ask ourselves, why aren't we eating today? we should come up with some answers.

What happened on Asarah B'Teves? Since I'm not in school anymore, I couldn't even remember! All I was able to think of was a song from one of the tapes I heard when I was younger. (I think it was from Rebbe Alter.) The song goes like this:

Long ago on Asarah B'Teves
Do you know what happened children
The seige began
Nevuchadnetzar and his army
Surrounded Yerushalayim...

Today was the beginning of the Churban Bais Hamikdosh. It was the beginning of the destruction of Hashem's home. It was the first step towards losing the clarity that existed when the Bais Hamikdosh still stood. And that is why we are fasting. We are fasting to remind us of what we lost, what we are missing and what we can get back.

Do you want the Bais Hamikdosh back? Are you comfortable in galus?

I'm not.

So what can we do to get it back?

You know the answer. I know the answer. It's an easy answer. But it may not be so easy to do. Because if it was, then we wouldn't be where we are right now.

I think that what we can do to make moshiach come faster is this: Choose one thing bein adam lamakom and one thing bein adam lachaveiro that you will change and improve on. It can be something new that you will choose to do from now on or it can be something you want to improve and become better in. One thing between you and Hashem, (davening, learning, thanking, speaking to Him, brachos or any one mitzvah that you feel you can do better) and one thing in the way you treat other people (going out of your way for someone, helping, smiling, appreciating).

And if you need more ideas, look at the poll on the right. And remember, this is individual for you, because you have to look deep inside yourself and think of what you know you need to change.

Just one more thing, here's a quote that I made up that I think you can use for your bein adam lachaveiro change:

"A compliment a day goes a very long way!"

To read more about Asarah B'Teves, click on this link and this link.

In the zechus of all the changes you make, may you to see real changes in your life and in the lives of those around you!

7 comments:

  1. Thanks Devorah its hard to remember these basics that we had in school its important to have reminders..so again thank you....

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  2. It's been so long since I actually heard about it and something in this post really touched me.

    Thank you so much.

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  3. I just wrote about Mashiach on my blog as well.

    Your blog always teaches me so much.

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  4. am, SiR & HY- thanks for all your comments.

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  5. Amen v' amen! thanx so so much! thank you so much for reposting it so that we can see it9for those like me who of course haven't)

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  6. liat-thanks! It's possible that a lot of people weren't aware of this blog last year and we've b"h gotten a lot more readers since then. So that's why it's good to repost things that were put up here a while ago - so people who haven't seen those posts can read and gain from them now!

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  7. thats definitaly ttrue! and i think its just really histerical that i just saw you comment pop up all of a sudden!there are many things from last yr. that many people haven't seen, and some who saw but went to seminary, many new people and stuff etc...so- like i think its really gr8 to sometimes just go back a bit and see some things-even i=f we already saw it one can always be inspired by the same things once in a while....

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